By tam lucky 
About the song
At times, the most surprising revelations do not come in the early chapters of life, but in the later ones—when experience has softened the edges of pride and truth feels like a gift rather than a burden. Such is the case with Jay Osmond, the drummer of the world-famous Osmond family, who at the age of 70 chose to open up about one of the most personal chapters of his journey: the breakdown of his first marriage to Kandilyn Harris. For decades, fans saw only the polished image of the Osmonds—smiling faces, perfect harmonies, and a tight-knit family who seemed immune to the struggles of ordinary life. Yet behind the spotlight, Jay’s story reflects the universal truth that even those who bring joy to millions can quietly wrestle with pain at home.
Jay and Kandilyn married in 1987, and together they built a family, raising three children. From the outside, their life seemed steady, blessed by both love and success. But as Jay later revealed, the pressures of fame, the demands of constant touring, and the struggle to balance family with career placed a heavy strain on their marriage. Over time, the gap widened, not from a lack of love, but from the weight of unspoken frustrations and the inability to keep pace with each other’s needs. By 2011, the marriage came to an end, leaving both to chart new paths.
Looking back, Jay admits that the breakup was one of the most painful experiences of his life, but also one that taught him humility and resilience. His honesty at 70 is not about regret, but about acceptance—a reminder that brokenness can coexist with gratitude. In sharing his truth, Jay offers a lesson that resonates far beyond celebrity: marriages may falter, but the courage to face the past with clarity can bring a different kind of peace.